being a parent doesn't make you a good person
how the role of parenting became a source of entitlement and hypocrisy to a lot of shitty people
I've got a lot of fucking shit to say off my chest but to start this off: you're not some fucking hero for rubbing your private parts inside each other and bringing life to your shitty sperms and eggs that should go down the drain. No soul deserves to be sent into a body that gets birthed by horrible people who decided one day they wanna become parents as if it's a fucking joke. There's a quote that says “ family is the foundation of a good society “, and by looking at the state of humanity, all families SUCK!
It boils my fucking heart to even think about the fact there are some fucking people out there with a bunch of mental illnesses and financial problems who decide to marry others with substance and alcohol abuse. Just pure irresponsibility. And I see it in real life: countless people surrounding me that are or will be horrible parents. The older I get, the more I lose my respect for all parents. I hate parents. I say that with every vein inside my body. The role of being a parent became an excuse for entitlement, arrogance, violence and manipulation.
You're not some fucking hero for birthing a child or providing them with the bare minimum. You're a hero when you raise that child and treat them with love and care, warmth and stability. But instead most of you suck the life force out of that being and then wonder why they sent you to a nursing home. It’s because you deserve it, bitch ! 85% of you deserve it ! Even a nursing home isn't enough to hurt you enough to understand how much of a shitty parent you were to your child. And if any of you feel offended by what I'm saying, then I'm definitely talking about people like you.
You know we all know having kids is a serious decision. But as time goes by, people start taking it so lightly. “Oh, I'm pregnant by my boyfriend that I met only a year ago, who I'm not even married to, AKA The Wizard Liz.” Who the fuck has a child after only knowing someone for less than a fucking year? You call it love? Well, honey, your understanding of love is FUCKED. You don’t fall in love, you grow in love. Because why the fuck would you fall in love with someone you only knew for a few months? Even 2 years isn’t enough. Most of you probably lived longer than 2 decades. 2 years compares nothing to 20 years. People will only start to show their true colors after 3 years. I don’t make the rules.
The fast spreading of baby mamas and daddies and Christians wanting to ban abortions as if it’s homicide… yeah right, what a beautiful society we live in.
We are in the big of 2025 and people still think it’s okay to beat their kids if they misbehave. Well, do that to an adult, bitch. Why wouldn’t you? Because you know you would get beaten the fuck up. I swear, everyone that thinks putting hands on kids is okay are fucking disgusting, my shitty family included. And this one online friend that I have, she once was complaining to me about kids crying in a restaurant and how their parents should beat them.
First of all, I know children can be annoying, but they are children. You just suck it up and talk to them nicely, not yell at them or give them an evil-ass look just like how my cunt of a father used to do. And second of all, it's crazy how I didn’t notice that as a sign that my online friend is a red flag. I hate how I used to stay in touch with people who were obviously shitty. And I’m not trying to act like a perfect person, but you know what? Maybe I am. Maybe I'm actually that good. And I've been dismissing and discrediting myself so long for being too kind, too self-aware, too considerate, too pure, just to not be perceived as arrogant.
But I'm done. I'm done making myself small for a society like that. I'm done giving, giving and giving, trying to understand and being there for everybody when none of them deserves it. I’m done wasting my time on mediocre people who showed me so many times their true colors yet I stayed because I was so lonely and desperately needed somebody in my life.
Well, thanks to my parents. Thanks to them for being so embarrassingly bad at parenting that I turned out this way—hurt and angry. Thanks to all parents who made broken families and are still actively doing it. Now all of our society is rotten and there’s no hope. Shit will only go down bitch, to the pits of hell.
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